1.  According to Hani Henry, chair and associate professor of psychology in the Department of Sociology, Anthropology, Psychology and Egyptology at AUC, Robert Sternberg's psychological theory covers the most common reasons why we fall in love, namely: intimacy, passion and commitment.
2.  Intimacy
3.  It is possible to fall in love for intimate reasons, but it does not require commitment or passion. "Besides developing a close connection with someone, a lot of people seek intimacy for self-enhancement; it doesn't necessarily have to be for sex," said Henry. Sometimes it is self-serving. Everyone longs to feel loved and cared about. Women desire to feel their femininity and men desire to feel their masculinity.
4.  The song Hello by Adele is a great example of intimacy. Adele contacts her ex boyfriend and reveals her feelings of heartbreak about the relationship in the song's chorus. She explained that many years have passed, and she hasn’t done much healing. https://csgrid.org/csg/team_display.php?teamid=1094114 said that her lyrics were magical and could be used by anyone who wants to feel a connection with someone or have a long-term relationship.
5.  Passion
6.  Letting ourselves fall in love because of desire or strong feelings for a person is normal. Passionate love is developed as a result of feelings that lead to sexual attraction, physical interest and romance. Henry stated, "When someone you like is attracted to you by something that draws them to that person." "The attraction to someone is physical and there is a fascination about the hair and eyes as well as their bodies."
7.  In the absence of intimacy and commitment, infatuation is developed with the person you love. People feel attracted and soon develop lust. Some people view a person as an object and become obsessed. He stated that it is possible to be together for years with someone and not feel a commonality.
8.  Commitment
9.  Total love comes from commitment. He stated that those who are committed want stability and a healthy partner. "People who seek only commitment can be unable to find basic friendship and sexual attraction.
10.  According to Henry, in modern times, young adults are interested in objects more than relationships. " https://telegra.ph/The-Top-3-Reasons-We-Fall-in-Love-07-08 comes from consumerism," he explained. "The more consumeristic a culture becomes, then the more people lose interest in commitments. Some youth are more interested than others in pleasing people they don’t care for. Everything must be consumed, even relationships with other people.
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12.  Love Outside the Triangular Theory
13.  Although it's common that anyone can relate to Sternberg's love theory, we all have our personal reasons for falling in love. Your reason for falling madly in love does not necessarily have to be explained by science. Some personal needs can be the fear of being alone, social peer pressure, satisfaction or religious values," Henry said.
14.  Despite what psychology has to say about love, the type of love we choose defines who we are. Each person has their own understanding of what makes them happy and fulfills their human needs. "Some people are caught with a need that meets each dimension of the triangle and they can't give up on two because of the different needs they get. Love is complex.
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